Damn how long do you have to be here to be part of the " in crowd"

This isn't directed at the few nice people I have met.

It is to the people who love you to comment on their blogs and sympathise with them but dont give a shit about commenting unless you are part of the " in crowd"

You start to feel you belong ...talk about something close to you ...who replies ...hmm the nice people.

Meanwhile the others are too busy kissing arse and sympathising about trivialities.

These are the people that welcome your comments but are too busy or too important or maybe just too full of FIGJAM for the rest.

So ..how do i become little miss popularity and part of the " in crowd " and do I want to?

Oops i got kinda personal.

Jess

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on May 20, 2004
I did'nt think there was an "in" crowd here really.... just a bunch of bloggers doin' what they do.

It doesn't matter who the "in" people are anyway. (again... if there is an in crowd)

I blog beacause I want to, and leave comments for the same reason. Points can take a flying leap ~right off the site for all I care about them.
I do have certain favourites that I always read, because there are some interesting/funny folks who blog. (yep, you too) I just don't always leave a comment.

Just keep blogging Jess, and don't worry about "fitting in".... coz you do.

Wreckless.
on May 20, 2004

Considering that people have said over and over that the admins are wrong about there being "cliques" I would have to say then that there is not an "in crowd" so don't expect to be part of it

Seriously, don't take comments or lack there of as  any sign of anything.  Just write what you want to write and comment on things that interest you.  With the numbers of articles generated per day, there is the very real possibility that many people won't even see your article unless they go to your blog.  It takes awhile before people decide to put you on their "rounds" of blogs to read.

And, about the "fitting in".  Do people really care if they "fit in" or not?  I sure as heck am not going to write differently or state my views differently just to fit in.  If people don't like me, that's fine.  At least I know that the people who do like me actually like *me* and not some fake shell I have produced.

on May 20, 2004

Jess:


If it's any consolation, I do read your blogs, but as of late, all of my commenting has been minimal.  Keep on writing, and if I think of anything profound to say, I'll contribute!


 

on May 20, 2004
I liked that article, was very honest and to the point! I've only recently discovered your blog, but I like your style of writing, and I will be checking regularly for updates . I know what you mean, on some blogs I just don't feel welcome, I don't know if that sounds silly or not, but that's the impression I get, I have a select few that I read on a regular basis, and there are some wicked writers here, but I don't always have anything interesting to say as a comment, hmm, as you may have noticed, hehe! In my opinion, you don't become the 'in' crowd, you make the 'in' crowd, that's if there is one. Make it about your level, not theres, damn I hope I make sense! Take care x
on May 20, 2004
Thank you all for your kinds words.

Sally ..I agree there are some awesome writers on here.

And yes you made perfect sense.

Jess
on May 20, 2004
Awww Jess... you have a heart of gold! dont worry about the n00bs who dont see/care about that!

I love ya - and at the end of the day, thats all that matters

BAM!!!
on May 20, 2004
I think we should have gangs on JU... you know like them innercity gangs... yeah that would be sooooooooooo Cool... I would be like the leader of like ummm WestdiesJU styles yea werd bitch! You knwo that way at certains times at night you couldnt go to certain parts of JU cause you would get shot at.... or you could walk down the street.... werd... yeah yeah
Okay I guess maybe its only me and migs that gets this as a piece dripping with utter sarcasm... that and the fact that Dharma be feeling guilty... I mean if she didnt have anything to add then she wouldnt have proclamed her innocences... but hey that just MY thought...

Mark you trying to move in on my girl.... down boy down!



Adios...
Great article by the way babygirl it made me laugh...
on May 20, 2004

Controversy will create comments. Compare my non-controversial entries to ones in which I ridicule an entire group's beliefs, and you'll be known.

on May 20, 2004
Ty Thomas

I did write this article tongue in cheek dipped in a touch of sarcasm.

But I received so many sincere and nice comments, that I was quite touched.

So ty to all.

Jess
on May 24, 2004
Hey Jess, I have written a simular article a while back. Well not similar, but, I know I meant the same. hehehe. I understand what you are saying. It is hard to write somethings and sometimes you ARE looking for others input, not points or any of that, just someone letting you know that you have been heard.
I have made it clear to you that I enjoy the shit out of your mind and the way it works, so I stand before you happy to say...NA NA NANANA, she's not talking about MEEEEEE!!!!!!!
on May 24, 2004
so I stand before you happy to say...NA NA NANANA, she's not talking about MEEEEEE!!!!!!!


roflmao ...Dreamer the feeling is mutual.

Jess

on May 24, 2004

that and the fact that Dharma be feeling guilty... I mean if she didnt have anything to add then she wouldnt have proclamed her innocences... but hey that just MY thought...


Your thought is wrong.  I responded because of something that had been said before, and that had to do with my ranking.


 

on May 25, 2004
I dont care if its wrong or not... its what I feel And I do believe I have probably read it in what you said.

Thomas
on May 25, 2004
I'm here and listening, don't really say much though. Sometimes you have to feel "in" to comment as well.

I'm kinda shy so i'm not even sure if people want to hear from me in comments let alone posts.

Like me in the rest of the "real world" this is something i'll have to get over soon. Once I do expect to hear a lot more from me.

I can see the fly swatter coming out already

Marco XX
on May 25, 2004

And I do believe I have probably read it in what you said


Believe whatever you want, dude.  I know what I meant, because I wrote it. Unless you were there inside my head, you're just guessing and/or assuming.

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